Most all of us have experienced heart break or loss. Sometimes the pain can take us to our knees. I experienced my share of it. I remember the first time my Twin Flame left me, I felt like someone had stuck a dagger into my chest followed by ten trucks running over me. I was literally physically ill and hurting from the deep pain in my heart.
What most of us don’t realize is that beneath every heart-break are buried many others that we haven’t full digested, some may have even originated in other lifetimes. Like cumulative interest, all the unresolved heart breaks and losses will add intensity to our current and most recent loss. Thus it can make our current loss unbearable. The good news is that the heart can be healed.
Ignoring your pain may eventually lead to actual physical heart problems. Spirit has a way of getting your attention. Don’t let it get that far.
Here is a recent client’s testimonial about healing her heart:
During my first healing session with Dagmar, I could barely speak without crying. In fact, I had been sobbing uncontrollably in front of friends and neighbors and therapeutic counselors with no signs of recovery. My grief at being estranged from my only child and grandchild was overwhelming and I couldn’t imagine moving forward in my life. After my first healing session with Dagmar I knew there was hope for the future and I felt a peace that had eluded me for countless months. Six months later, after just four more sessions with Dagmar, the healing of my heart is nothing short of miraculous. Dagmar has literally led me on a path that saved my life. She has helped me heal both old and new spiritual and psychological wounds. After months of living with worry and panic and finding restful sleep almost impossible, I am now finding joy, purpose, peace and hope in my everyday life. Dagmar has a gift of healing that she shares with ease, generosity and humility. Without being religious, she is a ‘Godsend’ and I will be forever grateful that our paths have crossed.
Barbara, May 2016
Has your life been recently turned upside down? Or perhaps you know someone whose life has been suddenly filled with such drama, it seems surreal?
I’ve seen people who have had decent lives suddenly lose their jobs and go homeless, or get stuck in between homes, lose everything they own, lose their children, or their long term relationships fall apart, or they suddenly are dealing with unexplained physical ailments. I’ve seen people with a lot of indigestion and stomach issues, sudden unexplained aches and pains and autoimmune disorders. Globally, we can also witness turmoil, for example the refugees from Syria crisis.
I, myself, have been dealing with some interesting and quite surreal drama in my family too. As a spiritual healer, I am not immune to the spiritual shift we are undergoing. However, I do find comfort in understanding what is happening and why, and it definitely helps having tools with which I can ease my life.
I don’t know if perhaps you might have noticed how some of the old ways of doing things are no longer working, like going to the doctor to resolve your ailments. As part of the spiritual shift we are being more and more prompted to go within and look for resolution within ourselves. The big push is to resolve our old karma. This will ultimately help us move into the higher dimensions.
We are moving from the 3rd dimension of dualism (good and evil), where we have been primarily learning through the experiencing of pain, to the 5th dimension of love and oneness, where no pain exists, as is my understanding. It makes sense. After all, the 5th dimension is much higher in vibration and pain is a low vibration energy. In order to accomplish this shift, the vibrations on our planet have been increasing gradually, allowing us to make the necessary adjustments. It is this continuous increase in vibration, however, that is having a sort of flush out effect on our old unresolved pain, also referred to as our karma. This flushing out of our old karma is manifesting itself in our daily drama, which is nothing more than the recreation of our old trauma. In other words, we are re-living our old karma in hopes that by confronting it, we will resolve it within ourselves. And I’m not just talking from this lifetime, but also from past lifetimes.
We have this amazing ability to disconnect from our pain. This, incidentally, is how we create incomplete experiences we then carry around with us on our soul for sometimes many lifetimes. Now, more than ever before, we are supported to resolve our incomplete experiences, or our karma. We must, in order to move up in vibration. Think, the old pain is like carrying around sacks of potatoes, heavy. Thus in our daily situations we are being more forcefully confronted with our past pain and the issues we have yet to resolve.
So, if you find yourself experiencing extreme tiredness, fear, stress, or worry, or you find yourself in some surreal situation or with sudden physical ailments, know this: whatever discomfort you are experiencing right now, it is about resolving your karma! Understanding this always brought me peace of mind, because I knew if I could resolve the issue energetically within myself, the situation I was facing would resolve itself. Got to try this. It’s like magic.
The huge comfort is in knowing that you don’t have to keep re-living your old pain. You have a choice. You can get some help from someone who understands spiritual healing and how to help your soul reconcile your past, especially if you yourself don’t know what you are doing.
Know that trying to resolve your karma by re-living it may take days, weeks, months, years or even lifetimes, where you may resolve your past in a matter of hours with the help of a spiritual healer.
But beware. Not all healers are alike. Do your research and ask your spirit for guidance to the right person who can help you in your highest good.
….and let’s move into living with ease, grace and joy!
Betrayal can be very painful to live with. Unfortunately, betrayal is something we draw in because of unresolved past betrayals. If you are tired of being betrayed, you must heal the unresolved betrayals in your past.
Here is what one client had to say about her experience with spiritual healing and betrayal.
After our last session, I feel lighter and clearer than I EVER have. We cleared two of three past life betrayals. One betrayal was especially troubling and I feel that it caused the biggest breakthrough. All of my life, I have felt that men will not respect me and that they only want to take advantage of me. I have manifested this in every relationship, especially with male superiors at work. I have lived my entire life dealing with betrayal after betrayal. Since the last session with Dagmar I have renewed hope for my future. I have hope that I am capable of finding true love and that I can finally gain the respect of my male superiors.
Thank you, Dena
Do you work hard at being a good husband, wife, girlfriend or boyfriend?
You take care of the kids. You cook. You bring her flowers. You go with him to his favorite game. You help him clean out his shed. You help her in the kitchen by doing the dishes. You bring home the bacon. You fulfill his sexual fantasies. You do his laundry. … etc, etc.
….and yet he or she just does not appreciate you!
Well, this is probably not going to change, if you keep doing what you’re doing.
So many of us are looking to have our bucket filled by the other person, particularly our loved one. Yet, the truth of the matter is that no one can fill our bucket besides ourselves. All your partner does is mirror to you your empty bucket.
So, if you are feeling unappreciated, then let’s work together and figure out where you’ve sustained a hole in your appreciation bucket, patch it up and fill you back up with appreciation.
You’ll be amazed at how quickly your partner will appreciate you!
Call for your appointment today!
Do you desire to be loved, and yet the men you are connecting with do not love you?
Do you find yourself working hard at loving them and yet your love is not being reciprocated?
Believe it or not, this may be because deep down you actually believe that you CANNOT, SHOULD NOT, OR DON’T DESERVE to be loved.
You are deliberately, for some reason, denying yourself the ability to be loved.
I want to work with you to uncover and isolate WHY you are living this pattern.
If you want to attract love into your life, call me for an appointment today!
Intimate relationships can be the most wonderful and the most painful of experiences. Love can make us feel like we are walking on cloud nine or it can make us feel like someone stuck a dagger into our hearts and ten trucks ran over us. How do I know? …well, I have experienced it. I think it’s because our significant other most closely hits home with who we are and where our pain is. Relationships mirror to us how we treat ourselves and others. Yet, we are so quick to point our finger. He or she is not appreciating us. They are so critical of us. If only they would change… We would be so happy! Yet how many of us have ever considered where we might not be appreciating ourselves? Or where we are being critical with ourselves? Even though our partner may have their own issues, on a spiritual level they are simply pointing out to us how we act with ourselves and others and where we need to heal.
For example, if as a child one of our parents left the household, we may conclude that that parent didn’t love us. We may go even further to decide that therefore we are not lovable and that we must not deserve to be loved. This unresolved painful experience including our decision carries a certain energy. With that energy we attract, even at 40 plus, partners into our lives who continue to prove us right and don’t love us because after all, we are not lovable. And as such we keep re-experiencing the same pain from our child hood. The key is to recognize that our partner isn’t doing it to us. We are doing it to ourselves. We carry the unresolved pain and energy about who we are and thus create our circumstances with it. It doesn’t even matter that it’s this particular partner supposedly doing it to us. If it wasn’t this partner it would be a different partner, because ultimately we are creating the experience. The mirror effect doesn’t, by the way, just apply to intimate relationship. It applies to any relationship. It could be our mother, our child, our brother or it could be a mere stranger we only encountered once.
I had a client once come to me for a clairvoyant reading. He wanted to know what to do about his employees. He was clearly frustrated with them. He complained; they are irresponsible, they never do what I tell them to do, they are slow at their job and they don’t follow through. I told him that they were mirroring to him his own behavior and once he changed so would his employees change. I asked him “where are you being like that?” His response to me was “I don’t get it. I can’t see how I am like that.” It is actually more common than not that we can’t see ourselves or recognize how we are being in a certain way. I suppose for that reason we have others mirroring our behavior to us. I suggested that we do some healing around his employees’ behavior which obviously was causing him pain. After healing a few incidences with his employees I asked him what he might have learned from those experiences or if there was anything his soul wanted to share with him. His reply was that he needed to place his employees in more suitable positions. That he had been neglecting to pay attention to his employees and what job they would be best suited for. He said that he’d been really procrastinating about this and not taking responsibility and that he really needed to follow through in his job. True story!
So, how can we improve our relationships through spiritual healing? Usually there is a reason why we behave or why we treat ourselves in a certain way. Nothing that can’t be remedied usually through spiritual healing. Spiritual healing helps us digest the past unresolved experiences, change the decisions that no longer serve us and shift our perspectives. Once we transform and shift the energy within us, there is no unpleasent bit to be mirrored anymore. Suddenly their behavior changes. ….and we didn’t even have to point a finger or say a word.
So, the next time someone makes a snide remark toward you at the grocery store and you think to yourself “what a shmuck, this is soooo not about me”, know that this is sooooo about you! …and to change them, all you have to do is change yourself! Isn’t it fun?