Do you work hard at being a good husband, wife, girlfriend or boyfriend?
You take care of the kids. You cook. You bring her flowers. You go with him to his favorite game. You help him clean out his shed. You help her in the kitchen by doing the dishes. You bring home the bacon. You fulfill his sexual fantasies. You do his laundry. … etc, etc.
….and yet he or she just does not appreciate you!
Well, this is probably not going to change, if you keep doing what you’re doing.
So many of us are looking to have our bucket filled by the other person, particularly our loved one. Yet, the truth of the matter is that no one can fill our bucket besides ourselves. All your partner does is mirror to you your empty bucket.
So, if you are feeling unappreciated, then let’s work together and figure out where you’ve sustained a hole in your appreciation bucket, patch it up and fill you back up with appreciation.
You’ll be amazed at how quickly your partner will appreciate you!