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Healing Losses

As we go through life, we experience loss. We can suffer loss in many different ways. A loved one may pass. A pet, who’s been a friend for many years, may die. Our true love may leave us for someone else. We may lose a large sum of money in a bad investment deal. Or we may lose our house, where we created many memories.

The emotional pain of loss can weigh heavy on our soul. This is especially true when we have experienced multiple losses in a fairly short period of time, where we have had hardly a chance to digest them. All that pain can lower us vibrationally to the point of depression.

The intensity of all the unresolved emotions from our past losses can accumulate and come crashing down on us during a present time loss. This can make our current loss unbearable to deal with and difficult to recover from. Thus, the more we can heal our past losses, the easier it is for us to bounce back from a present loss.

The other effect losses can have on us is that we may fear future losses, and therefore we might let our fear dictate our actions. This can manifest itself in the form of blocks for us. For example, we may choose not to express how we truly feel, for fear of losing our lover. It’s only an illusion that it is preventing us from another loss, and the suppression of our feelings can lead to illness down the road. And it’s really not contributing to the health of the relationship either, at least not one based on honesty.

If we lost money in the past, we may avoid starting a new business for fear of losing more money. This may prevent us from pursuing our passion and thriving.

Ultimately, we may attract more losses into our life. We naturally attract and create with the energy of our unresolved experiences.

Additionally, just the anticipation of a potential loss can cause us to re-experience the grief our past losses. Perhaps we worry about losing a beloved parent to illness and we could be grieving their loss prior to losing them.

A deep soul healing of your losses can take the intensity out of any current or future loss and help you recover from it easier and faster. It can free you from any fears of future losses, and thus from any blocks, allowing you to be more of your authentic self and help you reach your full potential. It can help you rise vibrationally, out of depression, and into hope and joy. Clients often share with me that they feel lighter after a healing.  Healing your losses can significantly lighten your load.

Stay tuned for upcoming healing events that I will be hosting in the near future.  Of course, I always welcome private session clients.

Healing The Heart


Most all of us have experienced heart break or loss.  Sometimes the pain can take us to our knees.  I experienced my share of it.  I remember the first time my Twin Flame left me, I felt like someone had stuck a dagger into my chest followed by ten trucks running over me.  I was literally physically ill and hurting from the deep pain in my heart.

What most of us don’t realize is that beneath every heart-break are buried many others that we haven’t full digested, some may have even originated in other lifetimes.  Like cumulative interest, all the unresolved heart breaks and losses will add intensity to our current and most recent loss.  Thus it can make our current loss unbearable.   The good news is that the heart can be healed.

Ignoring your pain may eventually lead to actual physical heart problems.  Spirit has a way of getting your attention.  Don’t let it get that far.

Here is a recent client’s testimonial about healing her heart:

During my first healing session with Dagmar, I could barely speak without crying.  In fact, I had been sobbing uncontrollably in front of friends and neighbors and therapeutic counselors with no signs of recovery.  My grief at being estranged from my only child and grandchild was overwhelming and I couldn’t imagine moving forward in my life.  After my first healing session with Dagmar I knew there was hope for the future and I felt a peace that had eluded me for countless months.  Six months later, after just four more sessions with Dagmar, the healing of my heart is nothing short of miraculous.  Dagmar has literally led me on a path that saved my life.  She has helped me heal both old and new spiritual and psychological wounds.  After months of living with worry and panic and finding restful sleep almost impossible, I am now finding joy, purpose, peace and hope in my everyday life.  Dagmar has a gift of healing that she shares with ease, generosity and humility.  Without being religious, she is a ‘Godsend’ and I will be forever grateful that our paths have crossed. 

Barbara,  May 2016