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So, you think you might have met your Twin Flame?

And if so, then perhaps you are wondering how to deal with the intensity?  Here is a bit of information that may help you gain some clarity.  Let’s first answer a few questions.

1004878_485959011493545_1377299262_nSo, you’ve met your match made in heaven?

You are so intensely drawn to this person, it’s almost scary?

Your heavenly match behaves in a way that is emotionally painful or upsetting to you?

The intensity between the two of you is almost too much?  You haven’t felt anything like it before?il_570xN.591630749_l1wz

Sometimes all you want to do is move to never-never-land, disconnect your phone and burn all bridges behind you?

It’s too painful to be with them and too painful to be without them?

IF YOU ANSWERED YES TO ALL THE QUESTIONS, most likely you have met your Twin Flame and have some baggage to work through.

 

754083-800x600-103197435xxynlw_ph1A Twin Flame is literally the other half of your soul.  You were born as one soul at one point in time and then split into two.  Each of you has become a whole separate individual.  Twin Flames love each other unconditionally.  No matter what they have been through, they will always love each other.  You will never experience this kind of love with anyone else.  Right now Twin Flames are coming together in record numbers for the purpose of healing, working out old karma and spiritual growth.

Because we are in the midst of a spiritual energetic shift and we are moving into higher dimensions, it is of utmost importance that we resolve our personal karma.  This is an integral part of the process of increasing our personal vibration, making it possible for each individual to rise into the higher dimensions.

 Twin Flames mirror each other one hundred percent, thus forcing each other to deal with all their baggage.  By baggage I am referring to the unresolved painful experiences from our past.  I also call this karma.  It is this unresolved business that adds significantly to the intensity between Twin Flames.   It feels much like stabbing a knife into an old wound.  On a spiritual level the hope is that when we connect with our baggage, we will resolve it.  The natural process of resolving our karma on the physical plane may take years, even lifetimes of creating and living out the drama of our unresolved issues trying to learn our lessons.  With spiritual healing this can be accomplished in a matter of hours. 

Twin Flame Pic 1 2I personally have experienced the Twin Flame phenomenon.  In 2005 I unsuspectingly met my Twin Flame.  It was such a profound experience I wrote a book about it, “Meeting My Twin Flame”.  I quickly learned that the only escape from the painful parts of the relationship was spiritual healing.  One can easily feel stuck between a rock and a hard place in a TF relationship.  While it can be excruciatingly painful to be with your Twin Flame, it can be just as painful to be apart from them.  And sometimes Twin Flames need to separate before coming back together again because of their baggage.

The best advice I ever got was from a shaman to make medicine out of it!  Thus I will tell you, focus on yourself and resolving your own baggage.  It doesn’t matter what your TF does or doesn’t do.  You don’t have any control over what they do anyway.  Your Twin Flame, like everyone else, has free will.  Keep in mind that you can’t help someone who doesn’t want to be helped.  I’ve come to learn that the hard way.  Also, most likely your Twin Flame is busy mirroring your baggage to you and therefore can’t move on until you heal your stuff.  However, you can do your part and heal yourself and resolve your baggage, bringing you closer to coming together with your TF in a more healthy way.  Even if you are just working on yourself, the spiritual healing will shift the relationship dynamic enough to cause your TF to change at least their responds to you.

523509_242821195820944_1142290982_nThere is a place in the gulf of Alaska where two oceans meet, but do not mix.  It is like the perfect relationship.  You meet in the middle, but you don’t lose yourself in the other.  You remain two whole and independent individuals in a healthy relationship with self and each other.  And that is the ultimate goal you want to achieve.

If any of this resonates with you, I would like to guide you through your personal spiritual healing journey that will ultimately help you achieve harmony with your Twin Flame.

This is a life changing process that will improve every aspect of your life.

If you are uncertain whether you have actually met your Twin Flame or whether spiritual healing would benefit you, you might consider a 30 min clairvoyant reading and consultation with me to gain clarity about your specific situation.

If you are ready to resolve your karma and improve your life, 

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What is a Twin Flame?


A twin flame is like a soul mate except that twin flames are born as one soul split into two.  Each person is a complete and whole individual.  However, the other person is literally the other half of your soul reflected in the strong soul level bond and love.  The concept is not unlike that of physical twins except that the twinship is on a soul level.  Therefore this phenomenon is called twin souls or twin flames.  Everything is magnified by a 100 fold between twin flames; the love as well as the baggage.  Consequently when there is a lot of unresolved business between twin flames the relationship can be so intense that it makes being around each other unbearable.  Twin flames tend to feel each other from afar.  There is a certain amount of telepathy between them and hugging feels like coming home.   My understanding is that not everyone has a twin flame.  To encounter your twin flame is certainly a unique experience and a gift from God.

…but read more about this amazing phenomenon in my recently published book “Meeting My Twin Flame”, now available in print. The story is my personal account of meeting my twin flame and the profound journey it took me on.   It might just change your perception about relationships entirely!

 

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Improving Relationships as a Benefit of Spiritual Healing


Intimate relationships can be the most wonderful and the most painful of experiences.  Love can make us feel like we are walking on cloud nine or it can make us feel like someone stuck a dagger into our hearts and ten trucks ran over us.  How do I know?  …well, I have experienced it.  I think it’s because our significant other most closely hits home with who we are and where our pain is.  Relationships mirror to us how we treat ourselves and others.  Yet, we are so quick to point our finger.  He or she is not appreciating us.  They are so critical of us.  If only they would change…  We would be so happy!  Yet how many of us have ever considered where we might not be appreciating ourselves?  Or where we are being critical with ourselves?  Even though our partner may have their own issues, on a spiritual level they are simply pointing out to us how we act with ourselves and others and where we need to heal.

For example, if as a child one of our parents left the household, we may conclude that that parent didn’t love us.  We may go even further to decide that therefore we are not lovable and that we must not deserve to be loved.  This unresolved painful experience including our decision carries a certain energy.  With that energy we attract, even at 40 plus, partners into our lives who continue to prove us right and don’t love us because after all, we are not lovable.  And as such we keep re-experiencing the same pain from our child hood.  The key is to recognize that our partner isn’t doing it to us.  We are doing it to ourselves.  We carry the unresolved pain and energy about who we are and thus create our circumstances with it.  It doesn’t even matter that it’s this particular partner supposedly doing it to us.  If it wasn’t this partner it would be a different partner, because ultimately we are creating the experience.  The mirror effect doesn’t, by the way, just apply to intimate relationship.  It applies to any relationship.  It could be our mother, our child, our brother or it could be a mere stranger we only encountered once.

I had a client once come to me for a clairvoyant reading.  He wanted to know what to do about his employees.  He was clearly frustrated with them.  He complained;  they are irresponsible, they never do what I tell them to do, they are slow at their job and they don’t follow through.  I told him that they were mirroring to him his own behavior and once he changed so would his employees change.  I asked him “where are you being like that?”  His response to me was “I don’t get it.  I can’t see how I am like that.”  It is actually more common than not that we can’t see ourselves or recognize how we are being in a certain way.  I suppose for that reason we have others mirroring our behavior to us.   I suggested that we do some healing around his employees’ behavior which obviously was causing him pain.  After healing a few incidences with his employees I asked him what he might have learned from those experiences or if there was anything his soul wanted to share with him.  His reply was that he needed to place his employees in more suitable positions.  That he had been neglecting to pay attention to his employees and what job they would be best suited for.  He said that he’d been really procrastinating about this and not taking responsibility and that he really needed to follow through in his job.  True story!

So, how can we improve our relationships through spiritual healing?  Usually there is a reason why we behave or why we treat ourselves in a certain way.  Nothing that can’t be remedied usually through spiritual healing.  Spiritual healing helps us digest the past unresolved experiences, change the decisions that no longer serve us and shift our perspectives.  Once we transform and shift the energy within us, there is no unpleasent bit to be mirrored anymore.  Suddenly their behavior changes.  ….and we didn’t even have to point a finger or say a word.

So, the next time someone makes a snide remark toward you at the grocery store and you think to yourself “what a shmuck, this is soooo not about me”, know that this is sooooo about you!  …and to change them, all you have to do is change yourself!  Isn’t it fun?

Let The Love Flow – A Message For You Twin Flames Out There…


This is an excerpt from a channeled message from the being Kyron through David Brown back in 2010.  I ran across it this morning.  It was emailed to me by a friend a while ago.  I thought I’d share it with you who are in a twin flame relationship.  As you probably know twin flame relationships can be very difficult and out of this world because a twin flame relationship brings forth and magnifies all that needs to be healed.  How do I know?  I am in one.  At the same time meeting your twin flame is a gift from God.  After all, your twin flame is literally the other half of your soul and everything you are experiencing with your twin, no matter how painful, comes from unconditional love… to help you heal.  If you have difficulty grasping this, perhaps I can recommend a book for you to read that is absolutely phenomenal and shares a point of view from the spiritual angle unlike any other you may have considered.  I would highly recommend it to anyone who is interested in healing any relationship and/or wants to understand relationships.  It’s called: “Radical Forgiveness”  by Colin Tipping.  For those of you who haven’t met your twin flame yet, perhaps you will soon…

Excerpt from the channeled message:

“You will find your twin flame here on this earth and you will create a world with your twin flame; your twin flame is that part of you that left the divine at the beginning of time, it is the opposite aspect of your energy and you will become healed enough to live in love and peace with your twin flame, with that part of you that you belong with.  This takes inner work and you are being supported by the planets, by the energies that flow between planets, by Spirit, and you are being supported through your guidance and through every way that we in Spirit world can support you.”

If you would like to read the whole channeled message, here is the link http://spiritlibrary.com/kryon-south-africa/allow-the-love-to-flow

Anyway, reading this excerpt gives me great hope in the light of pain and confusion.  Perhaps you’ll feel the same way.  If you believe you are in a twin flame relationship and would like to share your experience/s, I would love to hear them.

What’s love got to do with it?


So you’ve fallen in love?

Well, let me guess.  That in-love feeling started to wear off and you started noticing all the  irritating things about your partner?  They have certain bad habits and they treat you at times like …. well, like you don’t deserve to be treated?  And you’ve put up with it for how long?  Why exactly, you’re not sure?  Well, except that deep down you know the next person will have issues just the same.  Afterall, nobody’s perfect.  Especially at your age, everyone has baggage, right?  The only other alternative is to remain single, but you don’t really want to be alone.   …but this is it!  You’ve had it!  You break it off.  ….only to start the cycle over again in a few months or years with someone else or the same person yet.   Or you’ve finally decided that being alone is not all that bad.   And you’ve been alone for years.   And you really miss having someone around, but you don’t want to go there again.

How many of us have been there, done that?  Or maybe you see yourself in that cycle somewhere right now?  Well, I’d like to help shed some light on this subject for you, if I may.

Most of us don’t realize that relationships aren’t just about love and companionship.  Intimate relationships are the most difficult because they teach us on the deepest and most intimate level about ourselves.  They also connect us with the deepest and most painful unresolved business we carry.  In fact, we attract just the right partner with our baggage.  Our unhealed traumas, because they are unresolved carry a certain energy.  Like energy attracts like energy and thus it is ultimately the similarity of our old baggage that brings us together like magnets.  The abuser attracts the abused.  The emotionally unavailable attracts the married person (also unavailable).  And so forth.  We then call it love or chemistry, but really it is the energy of our unhealed past.  Not to say that we can’t actually love our partner underneath all that baggage, but the only way to really tell is to take the baggage out of the equation and notice what is left.  Nonetheless, we then together with our partner engage in the perfect dance and act out our unhealed traumas that cut deep into our old wounds.  Why?  Because we are ready to heal them.  Relationships are natures way of helping us figure out what we need to heal within ourselves.

But what do we do instead?  We get angry and frustrated with our partner.  We think that if they would just change this particular behavior about them, we could be so happy together.  But your job isn’t to change your partner.  Your partner is just being a mirror to you.  Your job is to change you!  You can’t change anyone but yourself anyway.  But you still keep thinking it’s not about you?  You’re not like that?  You’re partner is the one with the problem!   Well, here is a simple way of telling whose problem it really is.  If it’s bothering you, it’s yours.  If it’s bothering them, it’s theirs.  So, if you’re the one who’s angry and frustrated, then I’m sorry to say that the problem lies within you!  What are you really angry about?

So, what do we do?  We can run and hide and try another partner, but unless we have healed our old business it will still be with us and most likely we will re-experience the same pain.  So, my advice?  My advice is, as a shaman once told me, make medicine out of it!  Simply recognize that there is something within you that needs spiritual healing and go for it.  You’d be amazed at how much you can change patterns in your relationships and attract better partners as a result.

We want our partner to love us, but ultimately no one can love us more than we love ourselves!

I’d love your comments if you care to share your thoughts and experiences.