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Introduction To Self-Healing & Spiritual Growth Program

Are you ready for more out of life?

Are you tired of meaningless struggles?  Are you tired of feeling stuck?

Are you ready to evolve beyond where you are?

Are you ready to fully realize yourself?

 

I would like to introduce to you a program I have compiled to pass onto you my wisdom and teach you how to self-heal, a program that will put you on the fast track of self-discovery, spiritual growth and transformation, and continue to help you evolve with the guidance of your higher self into the full expression of your magnificent self.

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FEAR – Real or Imaginary?


As we progress in our ascension process, we hear about the importance of moving out of our fear and into a place of love.  For those of you who have not heard of ascension, it is the spiritual shift we are undergoing and have been for some time. We are moving out of the third dimension, which is primarily fear based, and into the fifth dimension which is about unification and love.   As part of this spiritual shift, we are attempting to re-connect with our spiritual selves and the source of our inner power and love.

Let’s explore fear, and how we can most effectively leave it behind and connect with that part of ourselves that is the source of our inner power and love.  Wouldn’t it be nice, not having to live in fear anymore?

You might have heard the slogan FEAR = False Evidence Appearing Real.   It suggests that FEAR is imaginary.  But is it?

When confronted by a bear, we might agree that our fear is real.  There is nothing imaginary about facing a real life threat!   But what about fear of speaking in public?   In the absents of any threat to our life, is our fear real or imaginary?  As such, we may conclude that fear is only real if we are faced with a real life threat.  But is it?

What about the fear of flying?  Just because we have a fear of flying doesn’t mean the airplane will crash.  Does then flying an airplane pose a real threat to our life?  Now we get into probabilities.  How probable is it that our airplane will crash?  We could reason that if the plane crashes, our fear was real, and if it didn’t crash, our fear was imaginary.

Some of us may believe that fear is our biggest ally because it protects us from danger.  But does it?  Let’s take a look.  If the airplane crashed and therefore the threat to our life was real, then why were some of us not afraid to fly?  Does fear then serve to protect only some of us and not others?  And if the airplane did not crash and there was no reality to our fear, why then did some of us experience fear of flying?  What was our fear protecting us from?

Ok, you may say, in that case our fear was imaginary.  But, what does it mean, fear is imaginary?  Why would anyone want to imagine being afraid?  Ok, you might say, perhaps it is not the fear we imagine, perhaps it is the threat we imagine, based on our fear.  Good point.  But, what causes us to imagine a threat that’s not real?  What causes us to be afraid in the first place?

Looking at the above examples, we can clearly see that in some cases we can experience fear in spite of any real threat, whereas in other cases we may be facing a real threat and not experience any fear at all.  So, if the threat itself is not causing us to be afraid, then what is? And is our fear real or imaginary?

I venture to say that fear is real.  After all, it is an emotion, and emotions are real.  If we feel them, we feel them.  We really feel fear, even if we can’t justify it.  I mean, how do we imagine feeling fear, right?  Perhaps the better question is why do we feel fear?

Based on my years of experience I have come to learn that fear is very closely related to our past pain.  I mean, how do we know to be afraid of something unless we have experienced pain there before?  Take a child, for example, who may be completely fearless around a stove, until it burns its hand.  Afterward, the same child will experience fear around touching the stove.  Isn’t this what happens to us when we have our heart broken, when we are rejected, when we are judged and persecuted, or when we experience physical pain, like perhaps falling off a bike?

I know, you want me to explain the fear of flying.  After all, if you had crashed with an airplane, you wouldn’t be alive to experience any fear of flying.  So, why do some of us experience it?  Well, I venture to say that you probably have crashed with an airplane, but it happened in another lifetime.  This brings up the question of past lifetimes, which may very well be a question in your mind, but is not a question in mine.  Over the course of many years of healing work I have witnessed many fears experienced by my clients in present time that originated from pain they have experienced in other lifetimes.

As such, feeling fear has nothing to do with the reality of a threat in present time.  Our fear is based on our past.  The only basis fear has in our present is that the circumstances may look similar to that of our past.  In fact, our fear can very much distort our perception of our present, because while it may look similar it may not be the same at all.  And we tend to project our past onto our present.  I venture to say that our fear is real, because it is based on real pain.  However, the present time danger may not be real at all.

Fear is a big part of our very primitive survival mechanism.  It is based on the probability that we may experience pain under similar circumstances as we have in our past.  All pain, by the way, is considered anti survival, no matter if physical, mental or emotional.  This is just how primitive our survival mechanism is.  It doesn’t differentiate between a potentially life threatening situation and one where the perceived threat is mental or emotional.  Is it any wonder that according to statistics our fear of public speaking can be greater than that of dying?  And just how well is fear aiding in our survival?  Let’s take a look.

Perhaps you have heard or even experienced how fear can paralyze us, or cause us to hesitate in crucial moments, or cause us to place unjustified judgements on people or situations.  Imagine a police officer hesitating using his or her gun when being shot at.  Imagine feeling paralyzed standing in the doorway while facing a bear, when what is called for is to act quickly, step back and close the door.  Imagine someone panicking under water as they are being dunged over and over, and because they are panicked they keep trying to come up for air in the same place.  On the other hand, if they were not panic stricken they might swim out a foot or two and would be able to come up for air.  Imagine being falsely accused because of someone’s fear.  How many of us have been accused of witch craft and persecuted in our past lifetimes because of our psychic or healing abilities, because someone was afraid of our powers?  And how well did the accuser fair when killing the very person that could help him heal?  Imagine one partner falsely accusing the other of cheating out of fear of being betrayed, destroying the relationship in the process.

What about all those times when we experience fear in the wake of no threat?  How is fear serving us then?  How about when it is part of our soul’s purpose to speak in public, and because of our fear we rather forgo living an inspired life?   How about when we meet our soul mate, and because of our fear of a possible heart break, we bypass the love of our life?  How about when we’re guided to the person who can help us most on our spiritual path, and then we second guess ourselves, preventing ourselves from getting the help we need?  How about when we forgo investing in ourselves out of fear of not having enough, and ultimately prevent ourselves from having all the abundance we deserve?  How about when our fear prohibits us from leaving our house, driving our car, or flying an airplane?  We may be surviving, but are we thriving?  Are we living the life we are meant to live?

Perhaps then the more important question is, should we allow our fear to guide our actions?  A shaman once taught me that we should never allow our emotions to guide us.  Our emotions are far too temporary and volatile to be a dependable guide.  The purpose of our emotions is to express.  Our actions and decisions should be guided by our spirit, our higher self, which knows the bigger picture, is the source of our inner power and love, and always has our highest good in mind.

So, how do we get past the fear factor?

First and foremost, it helps to recognize when we are coming from a place of fear.  If we are experiencing fear, anxiety, panic, stress, anger or any other upsetting emotions, surely we are subconsciously connected to our unresolved past, and our perception of our present time may be skewed.  At the same time, we can’t be connected to our inner power and love.  However, if we are emotionally neutral about a situation, we can safely assume that we have a clear connection to our higher self.  Spirit shows up as a sense of knowing.  It doesn’t come attached with emotions.

Recognizing which place we are coming from, we can make better choices.  We can choose not to act from a place of fear, where we don’t see clearly.  In the case of fear urging us to act, we can choose not to act.  We can choose to postpone making any major decisions.   In the case of fear preventing us from taking action, we can choose to feel the fear and do it anyway.  I’m not saying that this is easy.  This may not be easy at all, depending on the intensity of your fear, which is directly related to the intensity of your past pain.  This is, by the way, where spiritual blocks come from.  They can be very powerful.  You may or may not be able to overcome your fear by shear will power.

But we can overcome our fear by smart power.  Here is the secret to overcoming fear.  We have to heal our past pain, the source of our fear.  In the absents of pain there is no fear.  Given the same situation that had us tied up in knots before, we can now confront it completely unfazed and remain connected to our inner power and love.  And unlike fear, our spirit will always steer us correctly.

You don’t have to keep living with fear!  Spiritual healing is the answer.  Spiritual healing is about transformation, transformation of our unresolved past pain into wisdom.  Healing our pain also helps us rise vibrationally into the higher dimensions.  Pain is generally heavy on the soul.  Thus when transformed into wisdom we feel lighter.   This is why now, during ascension, is such a crucial time for us to heal.  We are now more than ever before supported to do just that.

If you would like help in this area, please contact me for an appointment at 303.638.2696.

So, you are not feeling so well?

Are you experiencing bloating and indigestion?

Are you feeling tired?

sick_smiley[5]Are you feeling depressed?

Are you experiencing some fear or anxiety?

Are you feeling stressed?

Do you feel disconnected and alone?

Do you feel like you are in a brain fog?

 IF YOU ANSWERED YES TO MOST OR ALL OF THE QUESTIONS, most likely you are keyed into some past unresolved experience.  The good news is that you can resolve all your symptoms through spiritual healing. 

 Unresolved experiences are exactly that, experiences you have not fully resolved.  You might be surprised how many of these unresolved experiences, of which you are completely unaware, you actually carry.  In a nutshell, these are experiences where you have suffered some sort of pain you haven’t fully dealt with.  The pain could have been emotional, physical or mental.  It also could have occurred in this lifetime or in another lifetime. 

You may have some recollection of what happened to you in this lifetime, but you probably have no recollection of what happened to you in another lifetime.  You also might be surprised how many people I’ve seen over the years who thought they have dealt with their pain and they actually had not. 

In a very simplistic explanation, this is how it works.  A situation that is somewhat similar energetically will connect youSmiley_Idea with your past unresolved experience.  This happens far below your conscious awareness.  Suddenly you may find yourself emotionally down.  It is very likely your immune system will drop too.  This can be the cause of anything from a sudden onset of a headache to you feeling depressed or falling sick. 

Here is a very simple scenario which may make sense to you.  Say, for example, you have lost your daughter two years ago.  Your favored Holiday on which you spend time with her is fast approaching.  Anticipating this Holiday, you suddenly find yourself depressed and come down with a cold.  Of course, you may say.  That’s natural.  But, what if you get sick on Holidays for no apparent reason?  And what if the reason lies in a past lifetime that you don’t remember?  What if you don’t even believe that you’ve lived before?  And what if in your past lifetime your drunk father used to beat the crap out of you every time he was home for the Holidays?  By the way, it doesn’t seem to matter whether you believe it or not.  It works just the same.

Yes, I agree, these are natural reactions to the pain we’ve experienced.  But, what if you could heal that pain to such a degree that a reminder of it wouldn’t take you out each time?  …where you could remember your daughter, for example, without getting depressed or sick.  Well, it can be done.  I help people do it all the time. 

Please feel free to review some client testimonials!

So, you are not feeling so well, you say?  Well, what if you and I could help you feel better through some spiritual healing? 

Below are additional symptoms you could be experiencing as a result of your unresolved past:

You may be feeling stuck.

You may be struggling with an illness.

You could be having intense dreams.

You could be experiencing physical pains and aches.

You also may have visited various doctors or even alternative healthcare practitioners and they either can’t figure out what is wrong with you or nothing they are doing is helping you.

  But, if I don’t have recollection of what happened to me, how can I heal it? 

That is an excellent question!  This is what I specialize in, working with your subconscious and helping you uncover the answers deep within your soul.  No, I don’t hypnotize you.  I work with you in a light meditative state in which you are fully aware of everything.  However, you do have to be ready spiritually to deal with your baggage.  I can’t do it for you.  I simply guide you through the process of your own healing.  

Are you sick and tired of being sick and tired?  Are you ready to deal with your stuff? 

smiley_pouce1Then I dare you to call me and setup an appointment!  Lets start with a full 90 min evaluation, at the end of which I will give you an approximate estimation of the number of sessions it will take to resolve your issues based on your goals.   I can work with you in person if you are local, or I can work with you over the phone or via skype.  Long distance is not a problem!  Let’s get you feeling better!

Call for your appointment today!

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The Reality of Phantom Pain

Pain is such an interesting subject.  So many of us suffer from it.  Many of us choose to disconnect from it.  It is no wonder that the number one addiction in the United States is pain killers.  Amongst the different forms of pain, I’m interested in addressing physical pain in this particular blog.

Pain is energetically heavy and is part of our 3rd dimensional experience.  As vibrations continue to increase on our planet as part of our ascension process, you may find yourself faced with more pain more persistently than ever before, particularly by what I call phantom pain which comes from our unresolved experiences.  The reason for this is the pressing urgency for us to complete our unresolved experiences in order to raise our personal vibration to keep up with the planet’s increasing vibrations.

What I mean by phantom pain is physical pain for which there seems no apparent reason.  In other words, you may have never injured your leg and yet suddenly your leg starts hurting.  You can blame it on the weather or the way you sit or stand or sleep, however, most likely it is the result of a triggered or activated unresolved experience which contains physical pain.

Our subconscious mind records all of our physical pain, whether unconscious during a surgery or conscious during an injury.  Unresolved physical pain from past lifetimes is imprinted in our bodies when we are born.  Thus, for example, when our leg starts hurting even though we may think we never injured it, the injury may have actually occurred in a another lifetime.  We are just not aware of it.

Phantom pain is simply pain you sustained sometime in the past that was recorded by your subconscious mind and is being re-activated by touch, motion or circumstances and it is very real.  In fact, your body can’t tell the difference between pain happening right now and re-activated pain from the past.  We feel it just the same in both instances, although the re-activated pain may no longer carry the same intensity.   You may be experiencing only a very small fraction of the original pain.  Nonetheless, it hurts and can be quite uncomfortable.

Fortunately such pain can be alleviated through spiritual healing.  So, whether you have been in a severe car wreck or undergone surgery and keep re-experiencing pain in certain areas of your body long after all is healed, or you have pain show up for no apparent reason, I have healed many such pains within myself and others.

I’ll share with you one such example.  Recently a client came to me with hip pain she had been experiencing for the past 20 years.  Over the course of those years she had seen a variety of doctors, including alternative healthcare practitioners like acupuncturists and chiropractors, neither of which could find anything wrong with her hip nor were able to alleviate her pain.  She was finally told that it was probably arthritis.  In one 90 min session with me, I helped her return to a past lifetime in which the pain in her hip originated.  After the session her pain was completely gone, never to return again.  You may read her personal testimony on my website under “Testimonials”.

While it is not always possible to find resolution in just one session because quite often we carry layers of our unresolved issues, the fact that it is possible to resolve, begs the question as to whether surgeries like hip replacements are really necessary?  What if we could spiritually heal what is going on in our hips or in any other part of our body?  The other school of thought is that while we cut out a piece of ourselves, does it complete our unresolved experience, which calls for resolution on a spiritual level?  And if not resolved, will that pain then manifest in other ways or be imprinted in our next body?  Do we really get away with just cutting a piece of ourselves out?  And while trying to eliminate pain with surgery, aren’t we in fact inflicting more pain on ourselves?  …just leaving you with some food for thought.

What is Abundance, Really? Part II


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In Part I of my blog I concluded that abundance has nothing to do with money, as I have observed that even in the presents of a lot of money we can still experience fear of not having enough.

So, what exactly is abundance?  Where does it come from?  And how do we acquire it?

Consider for a moment that abundance is a sense of knowing with certainty that there is enough, unaccompanied by any fear or worry.  Much like how we feel about the air we breathe.  Do we worry every time we take a breath whether there will be enough air?  No.  We just breathe.  And every time we draw a breath, indeed there is enough.  Could we have the same sense of knowing about love, friends, water, food, clothing, shelter, beauty, resources, success, fun and even money?

Consider the possibility that abundance is available to us as part of our natural flow of life, much like the air we breathe.  Now consider for a moment that our spirit and the divine energy we are a part of is the source of life that nourishes us and is our timeless and limitless resource we will never run out of!  When we are connected to this life force we have access to all the abundance that already exists.  Thus our sense of knowing that there is enough comes from our connection to our life source, our spirit.

Why then do some of us not experience this sense of knowing, but rather to the contrary?  Why do some of us experience fear of not having enough or fear of running out?  Why do some of us experience lack in the midst of such abundance?

We all have experienced fear at some point or another.  Interestingly, it seems that in the moment of experiencing fear we also feel most disconnected from spirit, the very essence of life that nourishes and creates.  And when we act from fear we strangle the natural flow of life thus blocking our access to the abundance that already is.

Fear seems an effective survival mechanism in emergencies warning us of anything life threatening.  However, it doesn’t seem to serve us as well in the long run.  I’m talking about the fear we experience in the face of no immediate threat.  Where does it come from and why do we feel it?

Throughout my years of spiritual healing I have come to learn that fear comes from our unresolved past and exists in the presents of pain.  If we have previously been bitten by a dog, we now may fear dogs.  If we have previously experienced starvation, we may now be experiencing fear of not having enough to eat.  If we have previously experienced poverty, we may now be experiencing fear of not having enough resources to survive.  You get the picture.  While you are thinking about your own life experiences, consider the possibility that you may have lived more than once.

It is in the wake of our unresolved experiences we view the world through the glasses of fear and not only do we see the world as such, but we create the world as such.  Consider the possibility that we manifest our reality and we do so energetically.  Thus when we carry in our energy field unresolved experiences, we also create with them.  In other words, if we carry a fear of not having enough, our reality will reflect it by “not having enough”.  Our reality always reflects our spiritual energy because we create with it.

In conclusion, limitless abundance is available to us as part of our spiritual energy and natural flow of life.  However, unhealed pain distorts our reality and disconnects us from our natural way of being.

In “Part I” of my blog I ask the question “just how much money is enough?”  In light of our new perspective, I would like to answer that question by saying that no amount of money will ever be enough!  Not if we are attempting to suffocate our fears and worries with money!  How do I know this?  Well, lets just say I’ve attempted this for years!  Without much success, I might add.

We will never fix what’s inside of us with an external remedy.  No amount of money will substitute the power of our spiritual energy.  However, once we remedy what’s inside of us, we have a chance at seeing it reflected in our reality by actually experiencing having enough.

So, how then do we eliminate fear and worry, if all the money in the world can’t?  How do we get back to our natural state of being where we are properly connected to our life source?

In my personal experience, spiritual healing will do just that. Fear exists in the presents of pain.  I’m talking about the pain we have experienced but haven’t fully digested.  In the process of healing, as we integrate our painful experiences and transform our pain into wisdom, fear dissipates.  In the absence of fear and worry we can properly connect with our inner self, our essence, our life source and all the abundance that already exists with our natural state of being.

My wish for you then is that in your search for abundance you may find yourself and discover that you are the abundance you seek!

May you experience real abundance!

Namaste!

How Allergies can be affected by Spiritual Healing

An allergic reaction is nothing more than our body’s physical rejection of the “something” we are allergic to.   Usually it is a substance we come in contact with or something we ingest or something our senses pick up  in our environment.  So why is our body rejecting that something?  Simply stated our body will reject something when in our subconscious mind we perceive that something to be a threat to our survival, like pain for example.  Pain is in-congruent with our survival.  When we have experienced a painful situation that we haven’t fully digested our survival mechanism kicks in as soon as we approach a similar situation trying to prevent us from re-experiencing that pain and potentially death.  The intensity of our reaction can range anywhere from mild to severe depending on how much “charge” we carry on the pain we have experienced.

Say for example you had been burned to death on a hay stack in a past life.  As a result, in this life you are now experiencing allergies toward hay.   Spiritual healing is nothing more than the integration or digestion of past pain.  With the integration of your past pain your reaction to hay is simply eliminated.

You may view under “Testimonials” a recent testimonial from one of my clients about her allergies.

Reducing Stress as a Benefit of Spiritual Healing


It is my own personal experience that the more I heal the more at peace I feel.  Similar situations that would have stressed me out in the past, do not faze me today.

So, where does stress come from?  Stress comes from our own anticipation of pain and discomfort given certain circumstances.  But how do we know that we might experience pain and discomfort in certain situations unless we have indeed experienced it?  Thus my point; we experience stress as a result of previous traumas.  A current situation only serves to remind us of the past pain.  Pain is counter survival.  Thus our survival mechanism warns us of the possibility of pain by inducing stress in our bodies whenever we find our selves in similar situations where we have experienced pain before – simply to get us to leave the situation.

But doesn’t everyone experience stress in certain situations, you may ask?  Well, no.  It’s like saying all skiers experience fear of skiing.  The truth is that only the ones who have gotten hurt on a ski slope will experience fear of skiing.  For that same reason not everyone experiences fear of flying or gets stressed when on an airplane.  Only the ones who have crashed before.  Mind you the crash could also be a past life experience.  It is for this same reason we may experience stress around certain circumstances with love, finances, work, kids and so forth.

So, how do we circumvent this survival mechanism that’s inducing stress with us?  Simple.  We heal the past trauma.  By doing so we neutralize or de-activate the emotions or energy in the trauma.  No matter how similar the circumstances, we no longer will have that particular trauma act on us (or re-experience the emotions in it) because it is no longer active even though we still have memory of it.

So, you are feeling stressed?  Observe the circumstances around which you get stressed.  What might be the past trauma?  If you can’t figure it out, allow a spiritual healer to help you heal it.  It is wonderful to know that you can!  It is even more wonderful to experience peace and calm within yourself!

So, what is Spiritual Healing anyway?


When we experience pain, whether physical, emotional or mental, sometimes it is so intense that we can’t deal with it in the moment and we tend to “shove” it, set it aside.  In other words, we don’t fully digest the experience.  When this happens it becomes a piece of unfinished business attached to our soul.  Our soul wants to learn from our experiences; good, bad or ugly.  However, it cannot learn from those experiences which we haven’t digested.  It’s kind of like our bodies cannot get the nutrients from an undigested piece of brocoli.  The energy in the unhealed experience is live and continues to affect us.  By energy is meant all the emotions in the original experience.  Similar circumstances can trigger these emotions or key us into the experience so that we emotionally re-live it.  More often than not we don’t realize that that’s what’s happening.  We think we are simply having a reaction to our current circumstances.  Although the current circumstances may have triggered it, we are really re-experiencing the unhealed past.  Once we heal the experience, we don’t react to the current.  We are able to act rather than re-act because we are much calmer and centered.

Such unhealed past experiences are where most fear, anxiety, stress, depression and recurring pain come from.  Your soul will keep creating circumstances and drawing to you just the right people to keep reminding you of what needs healing – simply because your soul wants to learn from your experience.  Spiritual healing allows for the past experience to be properly digested and the pain to be transformed to wisdom.  Aside from your soul’s learning you actually get to experience relief from all those unpleasant emotions as well as recurring similar circumstances or recurring physical pain.  A lot of your unhealed experiences may reside in past lives you are completely unaware of.

Even though our natural tendency is to not want to re-visit painful areas of our lives, it really behooves us to re-visit for the purpose of healing.  We never re-experience the full intensity of the original experience, anyway.  Possibly only 10% or so.  We will, however, continue to re-live the past over an over if we don’t heal it, as our soul will not allow us to ignore it.  What we resist persists.  Only when we heal, can we finally let go.  Why keep holding onto the pain?  By not wanting to face our pain we only keep creating more of it.

Whom Does Forgiveness Ultimately Benefit?


Forgiveness is an interesting subject.  I use the energy of forgiveness in my healing practices all the time …because it heals.  When we forgive we also let go of our feelings of anger, pain, resentment and hostility.  It actually takes a lot of energy to hold on to and maintain negative emotions such as anger.  Withholding forgiveness is like drinking venom attempting to poison our enemy.  And yet, some of us can’t or won’t forgive.  Why is the act of forgiveness so difficult?

Is it because we think that by forgiving we release the other person from their responsibility of their actions and thus they will not have to pay for what they did?  Or is it because we so desperately try to feel powerful thinking that by withholding our forgiveness we can make the other suffer?

But, why do we want to take on the responsibility of making someone else pay?  In our universe, every action has its price regardless.  We all must pay our dues.  We all have our lessons to learn.  And ultimately we all stand before our own personal judge.  Do we really have the power to make the other suffer?   We may go through the motions and at best hope that our actions cause the other person pain.  But what the other person actually chooses to feels is up to them.  We don’t have control over someone else’s feelings.  Just like no one can make us forgive when we don’t want to.  It’s an internal job.  We only have as much power over someone else as they allow us to have.  By the same token, someone else has only as much power over us as we allow them.

So, how do we get feeling so powerless?  Well, when we blame someone else, when we hold another person responsible for our circumstances, we automatically render ourselves powerless.  By giving away our personal responsibility we also give away our power.  On the other hand, when we recognize our part in the creation of our reality and we assume personal responsibility and truly own our creation, whether painful or wonderful, only then do we also own our power.

Why do we try so hard to affect change where we cannot affect it?  Life only becomes hard when we set ourselves up with impossibilities by taking on someone else’s responsibility and giving away our own.  Ultimately the only change we can affect is within ourselves.

But why is it our responsibility when someone else hurts us, you may ask?  I know this may be difficult for some to accept, but every event, every person in our lives is there because we have drawn them there.  Maybe it was karma balancing itself out from another lifetime.  Maybe we wanted to learn something and had a soul contract with the other person to help teach us.  Or maybe we are repeating history because our soul wants us to finally heal our past.  Whatever the reason, we created our circumstances.  Only when we accept what is truly ours, do we fully stand in our power.  And it is then when forgiveness becomes easy because there is no need to hold a grudge against anyone else.  In fact, it’s never been about anyone else.  It’s always been about ourselves.  And all there is left is the pain we need to heal and the wisdom it holds for us.  …and forgiveness will help us do that.

Be open to everything and attached to nothing…


How do we achieve such spiritual freedom and bliss to be open to everything and attached to nothing?  What are attachments anyway and why do we have them?

Attachments are things we can’t do without or have a difficult time letting go.  For example, we can be attached to a certain outcome, in which case we are attached to a certain expectation.  We could be attached to shopping or to being in relationship.  We could be attached to having a routine or to having drama in our life.  We could be attached to an idea, the idea that everything must be in order before we can move on to what we really want to do, for example.  We could be virtually attached to just about anything.  Much like the toddler who is attached to his blanket, we seek safety in our attachments.  Addictions are no more than very obvious and severe attachments.

It is in our state of separateness we seem to need attachments.  By “state of separateness” I mean the space we live in where we are separated or disconnected from spirit, our source and the spiritual mother womb.  Being connected with source is the place where we know we are taken care of, we are safe, we are loved and abundance is ever present.  When we are in this space of being connected to source we feel no worries and no fear.  Thus it is in the space of disconnect where we are so desperate to hold onto something, … anything and we have the need for attachments and addictions.

We have entered the era where we are moving away from being separate and disconnected to being connected and united with source and each other.  We are moving away from fear and toward love.  We are moving away from suppression and toward self-expression.  But how does one as an individual move from the place of feeling disconnected to feeling connected and loved?  How do we move away from being attached to things?  How do we move away from our addictions?

First it would help to understand that whenever we experience a trauma, particularly pain, emotional, physical or mental we disconnect from a piece of ourselves.  The more we spiritually heal such traumas and pain, including past life, the more we re-connect with ourselves and source.  It is in the combination of spiritual healing and growth that we can achieve the connection we desire and the spiritual freedom of being open to everything and attached to nothing.